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Before Aishwarya Rai Became Miss World, Sanjay Dutt’s Sisters Told Him: ‘Don’t You Woo Her’

Writer: Mini Sinha
Mini Sinha
Aug 9
6 min read

Updated: Aug 21

Sanjay Dutt’s Sisters Warned Him About Aishwarya Rai

Long before Aishwarya Rai became Miss World, before her film debut and years before she eventually shared the screen with Sanjay Dutt, the two appeared together in a magazine interview that produced one of Bollywood's more amusing throwback anecdotes.

The year was 1993.

Aishwarya was already a successful model but had not yet won the Miss World crown or entered films. Sanjay, meanwhile, was an established Hindi-film star.

When the two came together for a CineBlitz session, Sanjay revealed that his sisters had given him some unusually specific instructions before he arrived.

“Don't you woo her. Don't take her number. Don't send her flowers.”

The remark has resurfaced more than three decades later, but the complete interview provides considerably more context than that one memorable line. Sanjay had already noticed Aishwarya in her famous Pepsi advertisement, his sisters apparently knew her, and the conversation soon expanded into a surprisingly candid exchange about attraction, fame and what entering the film industry might do to a young star.


Sanjay Dutt already knew who Aishwarya Rai was

When CineBlitz asked whether Sanjay and Aishwarya knew one another, Aishwarya answered no.

Sanjay's reaction was different.

He explained that he recognised her from the Pepsi advertisement and indicated that she was hardly an unknown face by then. He also said his sisters liked Aishwarya, considered her beautiful and had met her previously.

That detail is useful because calling Aishwarya an “unknown newcomer” in 1993 would be misleading.

She had not yet become a film star, but she was already an established professional model whose advertising work had given her substantial public visibility.

The Miss World organisation's own retrospective confirms that Aishwarya was a professional model and architecture student before representing India internationally the following year.


Why did Sanjay Dutt’s sisters warn him?

Sanjay's sisters apparently knew enough about both parties to issue their playful instructions before the CineBlitz session.

He told the magazine they had specifically warned him not to woo Aishwarya, obtain her number or send her flowers.

That quotation has subsequently been turned into headlines suggesting Sanjay was actively planning to pursue Aishwarya.

The original exchange doesn't establish that.

Instead, it appears as a humorous anecdote within a broader conversation that later moved into how Sanjay himself approached romance.

When asked about flirting, he described himself as someone who preferred giving another person time rather than immediately imposing himself. He also talked about pampering someone he liked, sending flowers and arranging private outings.

Aishwarya, participating in the same exchange, said she liked being wooed but preferred subtlety.

The chemistry of the interview was playful.

It should not retrospectively be converted into evidence that the pair were romantically involved.


The timing makes the interview remarkable

The most striking part of the interview today is arguably its date.

Aishwarya had not yet achieved the title that would transform her public profile internationally.

In November 1994, she represented India at Miss World in South Africa and won the crown. Miss World's official records identify her as the 1994 winner and note that she was 21 at the time.

The CineBlitz conversation therefore captured Aishwarya at an unusual point in her career: recognisable enough for Sanjay to immediately know who she was, but still before the international breakthrough that would permanently change her public identity.

Sanjay himself appeared conscious that she was likely headed towards something bigger.

And some of his comments now read very differently with hindsight.


Sanjay Dutt predicted the film industry would change Aishwarya

During the interview, Sanjay spoke about what he thought could happen if Aishwarya entered films.

His argument wasn't that she lacked the ability to succeed.

Quite the opposite.

He reportedly felt the competitiveness and pressure surrounding the film business could alter the innocence he saw in her at the time. He described an environment in which people constantly competed with one another and where success could harden a person.

The observation becomes particularly interesting because it was made before Aishwarya's film career existed.

She subsequently went from modelling to Miss World and then became one of India's most internationally recognised actors.

That does not mean Sanjay's prediction about how fame would affect her can be objectively judged as right or wrong that would require speculating about Aishwarya's personality.

What can be said is that he correctly recognised the scale of the industry pressure she was potentially entering.


Aishwarya became Miss World the following year

Aishwarya's trajectory accelerated rapidly after that interview.

Miss World's official history records that she represented India in the 1994 competition in South Africa and emerged as the winner from a field of 87 participants.

A retrospective published by the organisation in 2026 also preserves Aishwarya's own account of the period.

Looking back on her reign, she described herself as a second-year architecture student and professional model when she went to the international competition. She wrote about the intense schedule that followed her victory — including media appearances, fashion work, travel and humanitarian activities — and said the experience broadened her horizons and gave her greater confidence.

That provides an intriguing counterpoint to Sanjay's 1993 comments.

He worried that entering a highly competitive public world could take something away from her.

Aishwarya's own retrospective emphasised what the experience gave her: opportunity, perspective and confidence.

Those aren't necessarily contradictory interpretations, but putting them together makes the old conversation much more interesting than a simple “Sanjay's sisters warned him about Aishwarya” throwback.


They eventually became co-stars

The story also acquired another layer years later.

The two people sitting across from each other for a magazine conversation before Aishwarya's movie career had properly begun eventually worked together.

Sanjay and Aishwarya appeared in Hum Kisise Kum Nahin in 2002 alongside Amitabh Bachchan and Ajay Devgn. The film cast Sanjay as Munna Bhai and Aishwarya as Komal.

They subsequently starred together again in Leena Yadav's Shabd.

This collaboration is particularly well documented by first-party production material. Pritish Nandy Communications confirms that Shabd was released on February 4, 2005, directed by Yadav and produced by Pritish Nandy and Rangita Pritish Nandy, with Sanjay Dutt, Aishwarya Rai and Zayed Khan among its principal cast.

PNC also notes an interesting production detail: both Aishwarya and Sanjay quickly agreed to the screenplay, while the movie itself was filmed in just 40 days.

So the 1993 magazine encounter wasn't the end of their professional connection.

It preceded it.


What the old interview does and doesn’t tell us

Throwback celebrity stories can easily acquire meanings they did not originally contain.

This one establishes several things reasonably well:

Sanjay had seen Aishwarya's advertising work. His sisters knew and liked her. He found her strikingly beautiful. And he joked that they had warned him not to woo her, take her phone number or send her flowers.

It does not establish that Sanjay and Aishwarya dated.

It does not establish that Sanjay made an unsuccessful romantic proposal.

And the sisters' warning alone isn't evidence that a relationship was developing between them.

That distinction matters because decades-old interviews are especially vulnerable to being reduced to one provocative sentence after the surrounding context disappears.

In this case, the surrounding conversation is actually more revealing than the viral quote.


The Celebrity Hour Take

The obvious headline from this 1993 exchange is the warning: don't woo her.

But hindsight gives the interview a better story.

Sanjay Dutt was sitting opposite a woman who hadn't yet won Miss World and hadn't made her movie debut, but whose presence was already strong enough that he immediately recognised her from an advertisement.

He saw potential fame coming.

His reaction to that possibility was surprisingly cautious.

Instead of only talking about what the film industry could give Aishwarya, he talked about what its competitiveness might take away.

A year later, Aishwarya won Miss World.

Her own later recollections of that transformation emphasised the confidence, experience and global exposure it gave her.

Then, years after their magazine encounter, she and Sanjay met again as professional equals on film sets.

That arc — model, Miss World, film star, eventual co-star — makes the 1993 interview more than a piece of romantic gossip.

It is a snapshot of Aishwarya Rai immediately before her career changed scale.

And perhaps the most remarkable part is that everyone in the room already seemed to know she was going somewhere.


Sources & Verification

This report was prepared by cross-checking surviving reproductions of Sanjay Dutt and Aishwarya Rai's 1993 CineBlitz conversation, contemporary coverage preserving its key quotations, official Miss World records and first-party production information from Pritish Nandy Communications. Because a directly accessible digital archive of the original 1993 CineBlitz issue was not located, the historical interview wording should be understood as preserved through reproductions and later published accounts rather than independently transcribed by The Celebrity Hour from the physical magazine.

 
 
 

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